I've been trying to put together a guide of some sorts, one in which will connect the 2. What "2" am I speaking about right? I bet you'd like to know. Well, when I say 2, I mean the 2 genders of this world. Men and Women. An impossible feat many would say. I used to have this oddball theory that men and women should not exist on the same planet. We should have a system of spaceships that fly us to each other's planets when certain things are needed that the other sex can provide, moving a couch or a fridge, cutting grass, and on the flip, cooking, cleaning crap like that. When sex is needed, well that's obvious, jump on the ship and get it poppin'. That idea was always shot down, so much to the point that I even began to think it was fucking ridiculous, and then I ask myself - I say "self, is there a way for men and women that don't always get along to get along all the time?" Don't worry, I didn't answer myself, that would be... INSANE 'eh, but since the question was proposed, even though it was self-proposed, still, its a question nonetheless right? it deserves and answer, so I'm working on one, trying to sort all this shit out.
*ISSUES
Why do people yell and scream at one another?, why do people shut down when their asked questions? Anger is a serious emotion that must be contact, I'm beginning to think that anger can be a useful tool when used properly and released at the right moment. To get someone so upset to the point that they're breaking shit and smashing crap has got to say something about the effect the person has on the one that's all pissed right? I think so, I mean there's no reason to just go NUTS/APESHIT on someone, there has to be foundation.
*ISSUES
And for those that don't communicate well, there has to be a reason for that as well then 'eh, has to be. Why is communication hard to do, especially with someone that you feel comfortable with, someone that you know and love and talk to about some of the most ridiculous things in the day to day exchange? Why shut down when its time to talk to you "friend" about an issue that you "friend" deems IMPORTANT?
A friend of mine mentioned a few reads that I should give a try, after have this discussion with her she figured I was having relationship issues, (DID I TELL YOU MY FRIEND IS A FUCKING SCHOLAR? - RIIIIIIGHT) anyway, she gave some interesting advice, as she herself had been dealing with issues similar to my own, so it was relative.
That conversation that was held made me realize that there are so many issues that go on in the world that are relative amongst all human beings, which lead me to further think, "if complete strangers and or friends alike deal with issues that are similar, why are we so different." The world is just a funny fucking place, and seeing as to how theres 2 completely different genders that have to dwell on it peacefully, that within itself is life, along with a few other things of course, working, schooling, raising kids, creating family and friendship bonds, all these items are elements in life.
I don't know, I guess I'm trying to peace a few things together to make this all make sense, one tends to get this way when he or she reaches a point in their life when questions arise, questions created by reaction, reaction that derived from an instance, an instance that was born from just that, a question, maybe a question that shouldn't have been asked cause it was infact never answered, or maybe it should have been, this blog post would have gone a totally different if that had been the case.
- Peace J
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